Hello Integrity….. Dear old gossip has become an addiction for many women.
It is seductive and builds an unhealthy intimacy among women, which creates false security. I believe the female species will come to a place of contentment when this persistent obstacle is corrected and transformed.
Gossip is connected to these four faces of addiction.
- low self-esteem
Realizing this is the first step to healing the addiction – from there we can choose to participate in it or not.
It is said the point of power is in the present and poor old Gossip is never in the present she is always going on about what was said or happened in the past. She weaves her words for the purpose of separation, which create divide in friendships, family and community.
Gossip keeps everyone small and is always driven by fear. Women have relied on gossip to define their position in society and culture for centuries, but it is not necessary anymore. Women now have the opportunity to rise up out of this unproductive damaging behaviour and create a new and prosperous culture for all women.
Gossip is a shadow deity whose time and face has come to an end. She has up graded to the face of “Integrity”, who is evolving into the New Woman, the New Humanity and therefore there is no place for these old behaviours.
I say it is time to put our temptation to spread rumours to bed and start being more creative with our female conversations, after all we are extremely creative beings.
For the record the gossip on me is “why does she always have to be… so in ya’ face” well my response to that is – at least its to your face and not behind your back and bitchin’ in the kitchen so to speak.
Guess it all started with that wicked old queen in the story of Snow White who’s famous last words were “Mirror, Mirror on the wall who’s the fairest of them all” now she had a serious bitchin’ addiction.
Hope you can take this refreshing idea in to your relationships and watch them bloom into something far greater than girly catch ups.